Why can some women sweet talk their men to be obedient, when ordered to go East, he won’t dare to go West? Wherever she points, that’s the only place their men could go, and they’ll do it willingly.
From that, one could realize, sweet-talking is a technique!
Ye Ying had high attainment in the technique of ‘sweet-talking,’ the moment she knew Wang Dandan’s father was supporting a lover outside, not coming home for days at a time, Ye Ying, who had high enough EQ, immediately realized the situation at home, and suddenly felt a sense of danger.
That’s why whenever she saw Sun Dongqing’s face that said “he dares abandon me,” anger welled in her heart, but she was her mother after all, even though she was angry, she’ll have to push it down and remind her mother.
“Ma, go think about how many words you spoke with dad in the last week? Dad has been working since Chinese New Year’s Day till now, he’s coming home every night at 11, 12 o’clock, as his wife, have you ever stayed up for Daddy? Have you said anything to Daddy that showed you cared?”
“You always say Daddy is pouring his anger on you, Ma, I beg you, have you ever wondered it was because of you? Can you stop placing all your attention on me, I’m already this old now, do you think I don’t know how to take care of myself?”
Since Ye Ying had entered high school, Ye Ying was able to decide on some household matters in Sun Dongqing’s stead; that’s why Sun Dongqing has the habit that she could ignore her husband’s words, but must listen to her daughter.
Seeing the chilly expression on her daughter, Sun Dongqing hurriedly served up a hardboiled egg and put it in Ye Ying’s platter as if to please her. She continued with some objection: “Your dad and I have been married for several decades, don’t I know his personality? If I gave him some colors, he’d be able to open a dyeing room! Eat an egg, I’ve heard you won’t catch a cold if you eat an egg every day before Gaokao, hurry up and eat, eat.”
Her objecting tone fanned the suppressed flames in Ye Ying’s heart as it erupted, “PAK” she slapped her chopsticks on the table, she fumed: “Ma, do you really have to wait until Daddy wants you gone, only then would you be afraid?!”
“Who is Daddy right now? Do you still think he’s that small village official back in the village? Daddy is a Provincial Cadre now! Do you know how colorful the outside world is? Do you know how many women are dreaming of becoming an official’s wife? How old is daddy right now? He’s just in his early forties! That’s the golden age of a man!”
“He has power and backing, and is also mature. Ma, do you know how many people couldn’t wait for Daddy to stop wanting you, and divorce you?”
Ye Ying had never said such words to Sun Dongqing, but at this moment, she finally had enough, and everything erupted all at once; the words she said had really shocked Sun Dongqing in place.
After her sudden shock, Sun Dongqing pulled a long face and yelled, “He dare! I’ve been by his side since young, and I end up losing the chance to give you a younger brother or sister because of something that d*mned Granny pulled! Your daddy for his selfish reasons, made me suck it up. I’ve gone through so many hardships with him, he dares divorce me!”
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“Why would he not dare to! If Daddy really dared to, what can you do about it? Stir up trouble? Can you win against Daddy?” In her fury, Ye Ying didn’t even hear the words that came out of Sun Dongqing’s mouth; she charged back into her room before she had finished her breakfast, she picked up her backpack and left the door with a “bang.”
Her sudden scolding made Sun Dongqing lose her bearings for quite some time; in her mind, her own daughter had never lost her temper like this.
The words she said were quite ugly: what divorce, what golden age, are there any children that curse their parents like this?
That’s also weird; why would she say those words when everything is okay? Could it be that Ying Ying had seen something outside, or she had heard some rumors, that’s why she came back to remind her?
Divorce me? Ye Zhifan, he dares!